It depends on someone’s POV. i’m guessing you want me to explain things so I can actually show you people how rude you’re being.
My personal view is:
I don’t care who you are or what you identify as. As long as you’re not being over dramatic, overly sensitive, and shoving things in my face to ‘convert me’ (religiously anyway), then I won’t have a problem with you.
I try my best not to make discriminatory jokes because it’s rude. If I say the wrong gender, just politely tell me and I’ll try to use the proper pronoun if preference. My views on race is unpopular, because I thoroughly believe that race is the dumbest concept I think I have ever known of. Gender preferences are starting to get out of hand with all of these suddenly new identifiers. Same for general identity (otherkin). So if I’m friends with someone of a minority, I most likely won’t be insulting them. I hold my pride in respect for others as they respect me. And unfortunately, I’m actually trying to be civil with you again rather than rage at you and your followers, which is giving way more respect than I should.
As far as I’m concerned, most of these things people are warring over and getting a crazy defense on is because they joined a fad that wasn’t originally a fad. Social Justice Warriors are just users joining a fad of the LGBTQ* community and other minorities being created. It’s actually annoying tbh.