It’s funny how I don’t see you admitting you were wrong even though I clearly just proved you are with that “transphobia is a fear” bullshit
Also “#they called me transphobic when I’m friends with trans”
CAN CIS PEOPLE JUST
STOP TALKING FOREVER
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST
I HOPE YOUR TRANS FRIENDS STAY FAAAAAAR AWAY FROM YOU BECAUSE HOLY SHIT ARE YOU A PIECE OF WORK. You can be transphobic and have trans friends. You can say terrible, transphobic things and have trans friends. Having friends who are trans will never magically make you stop being transphobic. Ever.
Many, many trans people are “friends” with ignorant assholes like yourself because they don’t know how to say “You’re transphobic and offending me and making me uncomfortable and I don’t want to be around you anymore” or they literally KNOW they won’t find anyone better. because MOST of the world is transphobic and we learn to take the “accepting enough" ones. Every single trans person has a transphobic friend, I promise.
You are not free of transphobia just because you are friends with trans people. Literally the fact that you use the term “trans” as a noun should tell people how ignorant you are. “Trans” is not a noun, it’s an adjective. That’s like calling black people “blacks.” It’s dehumanizing and offensive and rude, and most trans people are not okay with such terminology.
Trans friends are not a shield against being called out. I am a trans person. I said you were transphobic. Do NOT hide behind other trans people who are willing to stay friends with someone who thinks transphobia literally means “fear of trans people” after a trans person directly tells them otherwise. If a trans person is telling you you are being transphobic, you fucking figure out why they’re saying that and work to change.
Transphobia isn’t “being afraid of trans people.” And it’s not just refusing to give them jobs or murdering or raping them either, although that happens a lot. It’s saying things about them that are wrong or offensive, it’s saying things that directly hurt trans people, it’s saying things out of ignorance or that hinder the movement for equality, it’s attacking someone in a way that has to do with the fact that they are trans. Even miniscule things can be transphobia, and trans friends or not, you need to work to get rid of all of those things if you want to be a decent person. Otherwise, you’re just another transphobic trash heap.
"It’s funny how I don’t see you admitting you were wrong even though I clearly just proved you are with that “transphobia is a fear” bullshit”
Maybe because the original meaning of phobia is fear and that the internet is corrupt enough to change phobia into prejudice. It’s amazing how that works, twisting the origins and definitions of words. God forbid I actually try to be correct on something rather than use internet terms.
“CAN CIS PEOPLE JUST”
oic, so you’re one of those users. Hahah, dear lord I’m arguing with a real child. Okay so what if I’m okay being female? If I wanted to be male, I’d be spending money on a procedure to get a dick, testosterone and other changes. But I’m okay with my body. I love my body despite that monthly hell I go through. If you want to change your gender, then fucking go for it. Not like I have anything to do to control your life (unlike you who seemingly thinks being trans means you can tell me what to do for some silly, entitled reason). I’m not against transpeople. If they don’t like their body, then that’s their deal.
“I HOPE YOUR TRANS FRIENDS STAY FAAAAAAR AWAY FROM YOU BECAUSE HOLY SHIT ARE YOU A PIECE OF WORK. You can be transphobic and have trans friends. You can say terrible, transphobic things and have trans friends. Having friends who are trans will never magically make you stop being transphobic. Ever.”
Why? Because you hate me for being me? For having views different from yours? That’s kinda a shit reason imo. Fun fact, my transfriends went to the same college as me and we just chilled. Didn’t matter that I’m a ‘cis’ person or that they’re trans. I’ll have transjacky vouch for me on that. (Thank you Jacky <33)
Also have a quote just as an added bonus to show you how overly sensitive you’re being about my thoughts:
“Transphobia is a term made by the internet and therefore isn’t an accurate word for what they speak of.
You’re not transphobic. You’re respectful towards them.
These people are a bunch of sjw who want to think everyone who treks them they’re wrong is phobic of some kind.”
-Transjacky
“You’re transphobic and offending me and making me uncomfortable and I don’t want to be around you anymore”
'u call me cis scum. y u hate beetlekin? i’m oppressed. :c’
Good lord that sounds ridiculous. You’re basically an SJW who’s main goal is like any other SJW, pull drama out of your ass by over-dramatizing and going to the extreme ends of things rather than be civil and think for one second of your life.
“ And it’s not just refusing to give them jobs or murdering or raping them either, although that happens a lot.”
Case and point with rape and murder. You’re going to far ends of the spectrum for no real reason other than to make me look ignorant. Let me tell you, I’m well aware of things going on in the world. Racism will never end. On that note discrimination will never, ever, EVER end. It’s embedded in our history as human beings to hate constantly, and what you’re doing is no different. You're discriminating me, by calling me a “cis”. Yes, I know my 'about me’ tag mentions I’m cis. But would it mtter if I just said “biologically female”? No. Because it’s a more scientific way of using the internet’s shitty as pronoun 'cis’. Of course, you’re naturally discriminating against me for being 'cis’ while trying to justify you being trans? I am in no way attempting to oppress you. I never said anything negative about transpeople, and none of my actions, as far as I’m concerned, shows I’m in any way transphobic or transprejudice.
But you basically calling me transphobic without knowing me is really fucking stupid of you. You’re just throwing out some random assumptions out the window at this point. You don’t know me. You hold no power over me. You can assume all you want, but all you do is make an ass out of u and me.