hi! i dont mean anything rude by this, but refusing to tag something and calling it not a real trigger (which you did at first but not lately so i think you found your flaw in that because you also have triggers) is infact ableism because it has to do with anxiety and (in this case) autism so that might have been why they took it to that blog! just letting you know, most people dont think about ableism as much as racism and sexism but its very serious.

It wasn’t about a tagging anything at all actually.
The whole situation was started over having autoplay on my blog and my not turning it off at first because there was no proof of it causing anyone any problems. 
Someone asked on anon, I said no and informed them there was a pause button at the top. I also afterward put a message in caps. about where to find the pause button to stop the music if they so wanted.
Also, The music on my blog isn’t that loud unless someone’s volume is way up, in which case that isn’t my fault. 

Hundreds of blogs have autoplay on them, some with far harsher songs and more boisterous songs as well. How mine with ‘Two Steps from Hell’ and ‘Audiomachine’ was that big of an issue is beyond me. 
Then again, it was and that is how it started. 
It had nothing to with tagging anything at all. It also had nothing to with ableism either. Saying no to a random anon’s request (nicely mind you) is hardly ableism. More so without any proof the situation is causing personal issues for them.